i dont think stress is the word to describe how im feeling.
1 car accident
2 jobs
4 tests next week
AND
2 quizzes
more than ever beyond all that needs to be done all that i need to complete i have the stress that has to deal with friendships, loneliness, and the unsuccessful completion of nursing thats led me beyond the breaking point to decide another life decision.
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
the war
“People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within.”
it takes a truly strong person to show their beauty through hard times and realize they can go on from such a tradegy and learn to grow. it is so amazing, life is so amazing.
i was reading a story today and this mom had just lost her son in the war. he was 21 years old. she and her family wrote him letters, put them in a bottle and watched as it floated away in the ocean. seven months later, random strangers cleaning up the gulf coast, found these letters...read them and then wrote the mother appreciating everything their son had done for this country. he sacrificed his life for us. although that is amazing in and of itself, the mother is the true point behind this blog.
how hard it must be for a mother to bury a child, no matter the age. but at 21...this is our age! she came from this tradegy a changed woman. how beautiful that she is able to cope with such a loss and grow from this point to helping those other parents who lost a child in war. she took her own story and made it so so many more people are able to learn to grow from such an experience. how beautiful a gift she has given to the world.
it takes a truly strong person to show their beauty through hard times and realize they can go on from such a tradegy and learn to grow. it is so amazing, life is so amazing.
i was reading a story today and this mom had just lost her son in the war. he was 21 years old. she and her family wrote him letters, put them in a bottle and watched as it floated away in the ocean. seven months later, random strangers cleaning up the gulf coast, found these letters...read them and then wrote the mother appreciating everything their son had done for this country. he sacrificed his life for us. although that is amazing in and of itself, the mother is the true point behind this blog.
how hard it must be for a mother to bury a child, no matter the age. but at 21...this is our age! she came from this tradegy a changed woman. how beautiful that she is able to cope with such a loss and grow from this point to helping those other parents who lost a child in war. she took her own story and made it so so many more people are able to learn to grow from such an experience. how beautiful a gift she has given to the world.
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
romance
im in my bedroom with my roommate and her boyfriend. never have i yearned for something like they have. it is one of the best relationships i've encountered with the most love i have seen shared between two people at such a YOUNG age. they have the silliest converstations i have ever heard yet her boyfriend always throws into the converstation how beautiful my roommate is. to see that smile light up the room is astounding. but most importantly they are so in sink and so comfortable with eachother it really amazes me. she is so comfortable with him, when before she had self-confidence issues, and truly didn't believe in herself. i want that, so bad. i'm not too sure why being in a relationship is so important this time in my life. maybe because we only have this short life to live, and to blame media and advertisements they put it in out minds at such a young age to fall in love, get married, and have a family. i pray and hope with my whole heart that this is where i am suppose to go with my life.
Monday, August 9, 2010
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
vacation
sometimes i think i need a vacation from myself. away from my thoughts, fears, concerns, and dreams. but what i really need, without a doubt and beyond any imagination is time with God. i haven't had that moment of adoration in so long, i almost forget how to pray. i need help and i need God. what a perfect vacation that would be.
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
apologies
my roommates are asleep and i can't sleep...so i figure why not start my life-changing moment by apologizing to those i believe i hurt and write what i wish i could say to these people.
...... -- i am beyond sorry for the way things turned out. i put so much pressure on you to be the best person ever for me, when in the end i always wound up going to someone else for how i thought i should be treated. i thought i loved you. you opened me up in more ways than one, and since you i have had no one. it probably makes you happy to know that. i guess i haven't lived life since you and it kills me. i know i screwed things up for you that will be irreplaceable, but i did it because i was jealous and mad. you tried cheating with me but i guess i didn't want to for the mere fact you hurt me before and my heart wasn't sewn up since the last time. and then to just cheat with another girl the following night! how could you?!...i was so mad that it wasn't with me. does that even make sense?! you forgot about me almost immediately that next night. but i guess alcohol can do that to you. you ruined my life, so i wanted to ruin yours. i want to so badly call you and ask you how you are. ask if you still want to be an English teacher and if your still writing your brothers essays. ask if you still think about me at all cause you've been on my mind for quite some time and I'm not to sure why. i want to see you...make sure you're happy, cause you deserve that. i am so sorry for everything that happened between us. so much i want to call you and cry to you about everything that has happened. its so sad to say but you would be the one to understand. no one else will ever understand. i think that hurts more than anything else. in a letter you wrote to me, you stated "you made me grow up because i had to deal with your problems" never ever did i realize how selfish i was in this relationship and that is just another thing to apologize for. I'm sorry i took away a year of your life you could have had with someone else. and not with me, a girl with self-confidence issues, family problems, and just an all around mess. i am so sorry
..... -- i don't know why i should apologize to you. your a bitch and honestly i can not stand you. when i see you, i literally get sick to my stomach because i am scared of you and don't know how to approach you. but that doesn't matter because i would not approach you with anything and you me. but i want to apologize. i wasn't there for you when things went wrong with your parents. i wasn't there to support you and let you be my crying shoulder. you are a strong young lady that endured a alot. but then again you did a lot of stupid, immature things. not once did i share a secret you told me and to be quite honest i am not even sure why we aren't talking. it can't be because i took an ex to my senior prom. and all those rumors about you did not come from my mouth. so i am not to sure why we ended our friendship. it sickens me that we are family, yet can not even say hello to one another. i trusted you with a lot of things that many did not know. but i think more than ever what ever i told you, you held it about me and shoved it in my face. more than anything, you thought you were better than me and i am so sorry i let you get to me and push me down. you need to grow up and i am sorry i never told you that.
........ -- i don't know you. i met you once but we never talked. you stole something from me yet that gives me no excuse to ruin what you had. i just want to apologize for potentially ruining a relationship that may not have ended the way it did. i am not even sure how it ended. but i believe what i knew, started that process.
... -- i am sorry i can't tell you that what you do to my family is breaking us apart emotionally and physically. you are a selfish bastard that needs help in more ways than one. you need to stop drinking and if you don't it will soon ruin everything you ever had. but i don't think you care. i can't approach you. i don't love you and i do not have the guts to tell you you need help. i am sorry i can't get you the help you need before you kill yourself or someone else. i am so scared for your life and all those around you. i'm sorry i can't love you. you need help.
..... -- i am so sorry for the way i treat you. i'm not sure why i always put you down and always pick on you but i feel horrible. ALWAYS. i love you for always. i look up to you and appreciate everything you have done despite all the obstacles you have faced. i don't know why we fight. we shouldn't were sisters. i want a relationship with you. where we can tell each other secrets and not where we sit in the same room in complete silence. i want to be able to wake you up and tell you about my day. or share in my down's that i've experienced. more than ever, i want a best friend out of you. i am so sorry for all that i've caused you. i vow to try my best to never utter another horrible thing at you. i love you.
........ -- i'm sorry i have ever talked behind your back or given you a nasty look. i am sorry i gossip and believe what others tell me. i'm sorry i haven't invited you to sit at our table while you sat by yourself. i'm sorry i never asked what was wrong, maybe it wouldn't have ended the way it did. i'm sorry i never told you you were beautiful because you are breathtaking. i'm sorry i wasn't a friend to you, lent a ear to you, or a shoulder to cry on. i'm sorry i never met you. i'm sorry i never spoke up to those bullies and beyond belief i am so sorry i never said a word. i'm sorry i never told you i loved you. you deserve the best and i truly hope you find what you are looking for.
...... -- i am beyond sorry for the way things turned out. i put so much pressure on you to be the best person ever for me, when in the end i always wound up going to someone else for how i thought i should be treated. i thought i loved you. you opened me up in more ways than one, and since you i have had no one. it probably makes you happy to know that. i guess i haven't lived life since you and it kills me. i know i screwed things up for you that will be irreplaceable, but i did it because i was jealous and mad. you tried cheating with me but i guess i didn't want to for the mere fact you hurt me before and my heart wasn't sewn up since the last time. and then to just cheat with another girl the following night! how could you?!...i was so mad that it wasn't with me. does that even make sense?! you forgot about me almost immediately that next night. but i guess alcohol can do that to you. you ruined my life, so i wanted to ruin yours. i want to so badly call you and ask you how you are. ask if you still want to be an English teacher and if your still writing your brothers essays. ask if you still think about me at all cause you've been on my mind for quite some time and I'm not to sure why. i want to see you...make sure you're happy, cause you deserve that. i am so sorry for everything that happened between us. so much i want to call you and cry to you about everything that has happened. its so sad to say but you would be the one to understand. no one else will ever understand. i think that hurts more than anything else. in a letter you wrote to me, you stated "you made me grow up because i had to deal with your problems" never ever did i realize how selfish i was in this relationship and that is just another thing to apologize for. I'm sorry i took away a year of your life you could have had with someone else. and not with me, a girl with self-confidence issues, family problems, and just an all around mess. i am so sorry
..... -- i don't know why i should apologize to you. your a bitch and honestly i can not stand you. when i see you, i literally get sick to my stomach because i am scared of you and don't know how to approach you. but that doesn't matter because i would not approach you with anything and you me. but i want to apologize. i wasn't there for you when things went wrong with your parents. i wasn't there to support you and let you be my crying shoulder. you are a strong young lady that endured a alot. but then again you did a lot of stupid, immature things. not once did i share a secret you told me and to be quite honest i am not even sure why we aren't talking. it can't be because i took an ex to my senior prom. and all those rumors about you did not come from my mouth. so i am not to sure why we ended our friendship. it sickens me that we are family, yet can not even say hello to one another. i trusted you with a lot of things that many did not know. but i think more than ever what ever i told you, you held it about me and shoved it in my face. more than anything, you thought you were better than me and i am so sorry i let you get to me and push me down. you need to grow up and i am sorry i never told you that.
........ -- i don't know you. i met you once but we never talked. you stole something from me yet that gives me no excuse to ruin what you had. i just want to apologize for potentially ruining a relationship that may not have ended the way it did. i am not even sure how it ended. but i believe what i knew, started that process.
... -- i am sorry i can't tell you that what you do to my family is breaking us apart emotionally and physically. you are a selfish bastard that needs help in more ways than one. you need to stop drinking and if you don't it will soon ruin everything you ever had. but i don't think you care. i can't approach you. i don't love you and i do not have the guts to tell you you need help. i am sorry i can't get you the help you need before you kill yourself or someone else. i am so scared for your life and all those around you. i'm sorry i can't love you. you need help.
..... -- i am so sorry for the way i treat you. i'm not sure why i always put you down and always pick on you but i feel horrible. ALWAYS. i love you for always. i look up to you and appreciate everything you have done despite all the obstacles you have faced. i don't know why we fight. we shouldn't were sisters. i want a relationship with you. where we can tell each other secrets and not where we sit in the same room in complete silence. i want to be able to wake you up and tell you about my day. or share in my down's that i've experienced. more than ever, i want a best friend out of you. i am so sorry for all that i've caused you. i vow to try my best to never utter another horrible thing at you. i love you.
........ -- i'm sorry i have ever talked behind your back or given you a nasty look. i am sorry i gossip and believe what others tell me. i'm sorry i haven't invited you to sit at our table while you sat by yourself. i'm sorry i never asked what was wrong, maybe it wouldn't have ended the way it did. i'm sorry i never told you you were beautiful because you are breathtaking. i'm sorry i wasn't a friend to you, lent a ear to you, or a shoulder to cry on. i'm sorry i never met you. i'm sorry i never spoke up to those bullies and beyond belief i am so sorry i never said a word. i'm sorry i never told you i loved you. you deserve the best and i truly hope you find what you are looking for.
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